This is a hypothetical scenario :
- Ellie (fictional female) first knew Edward (fictional male) through online just like half of the world's population. They were so comfortable with each other that they hooked up almost immediately. After being in each other's lives, they found out about each other's ex's who were quite mentally disturbed (hypothetically speaking). Ellie is not the average normal female like those of her race and age. She was brought up quite differently and she has a distinct personality. Edward is the good-looking popular guy and seemed to have females queuing up for his attention.
- One day, after a few years Ellie and Edward were together, one of Edward's closest blood relation got married. Ellie was the least bit disturbed even though she knew Edward's now new in-law dislike her. Until one day. Ellie did an undercover job and found out Edward's in-law is a good bosom-buddy with Edward's wacko ex. All this while Ellie knew Edward had always wanted recognition and appreciation from his family members. And so, Ellie kept her silence for she did not want to hurt Edward. She knew deep down inside him, he still looked for that ray of hope. And she knew being with him would hurt her so bad than this for she would always be second when faced with his family. But she loved him and for that, she kept her silence.
Was it right or wrong for her to do so? Or should she just confront him?
Now the hypothetical question :
How would you feel if a blood relation to your partner informed that he/she had not contacted your partner's ex whom you suspected he/she prefers from you had done just that and even gossiped something bad about you at the same time? How would you react? Forget about it and forget about your partner's incredibly impossible family? Or mend your broken heart all by yourself?
P/S : A partner's faith is not only tested by going through the storm or twister with you but it is also further enhanced when you make a decision that is best for both of you. Don't think of what you gave but think of what more you can give.
8 comments:
i think its best for the girl to confront her boy instead of keeping it in her.. it wud only hurt her more if she does not let it go.. it'll eat her day by day and after a while she'll start hating him without realizing it. if she thinks the relationship is worth fighting for, she shud confront him.. if she thinks it's not worth it, then just leave now before anybody else gets hurt.. if it's true he will always put her second even after he's been betrayed by his own family members, then maybe he is too dependent on the word "family".. or maybe he just dont have the balls to be a real man..
whatever it is she should ask if she can see a future with this boy or not.. if she is strong, the thing about him and his IMPOSSIBLE family (lol!) is insignificant.. :-D
good luck to this ellie whoever she is.. ;) ;)
How would you feel if a blood relation to your partner informed that he/she had not contacted your partner's ex whom you suspected he/she prefers from you had done just that and even gossiped something bad about you at the same time?
i would confront this person (my partner's blood relation) and tell him/her to tell me directly why the need to gossip something bad about me.. at the end of it all, maybe i'll throw in a punch or a smackdown to call it even :-D :-D
i'm not known for my tolerance so if i was in this situation, i'll just dump the bf.. if he can't stick by me or still have that hope after how impossible his family is, then what guarantee is there he will stick by me when we have a family? he's just broken like his family.. and if i had that kinda bf, i'll leave instead of subjecting myself to a lifetime of heartache :(
Hmm.. Maybe I wouldn't be doing that coz I would like to think I am more loyal than that.. Just a little glitch and surrender already? Hmm.. But then again, how to broach such a sensitive subject?
:-D :-D :-P :-P Punch or smackdown? You kickboxer is it? HAHA..
HEHE.. ;) ;) ;) ;) back..
She probably needs ALL that luck!
You're right.. Oh Razz, you can be a good counselor sometimes.. Stop being a devil lawyer and be an angelic counselor la.. HAHA :-D :-D :-D Help those who's lost.. :-P
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